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Vol. XVII No. 1 JANUARY 2005 |
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Express here your views! CALENDAR FOR THE RECOLLECTIONS AND SEARCH –IN WORKSHOP, 2004-2005 In ManilaOctober 22-24 Messangers of Life November 28 Special Vocation December 18-20 Mission January 16 St. Daniel Comboni Pre-Postulancy 21-28 April Making decision
IN THE PROVINCES September 26 Baguio October 30 Kalibo / Aklan November 7 Iloilo November 21 Naga-Legazpi January 22-23 Davao January 28-30 Cagayan de Oro February 26-27 Cebu
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GIVE ME 10
by Fr. Vincent Mkhabela, MCCJ
TEN POINTS TO BOOST YOUR LIFE At the beginning of this New Year 2005, I would like to share with you about 10 positive assets that can improve your life as a young person. This asset will help you to grow, to build your own positive personality, to appreciate more about who you are and to discover the will of God for your life. (1) Character Kindness makes sunshine wherever it goes. When we are kind to each other the best of a person is shown. Little kindness is great ones. They help to drive away sadness and bring a cheer in the lives of many. Speak kindly in the morning; it lightens all the cares of the day and makes the household and other affairs move along more smoothly. Speak kindly at night: for to some members of a family it forms contentment. Speak kindly at all times; it encourages many and can awaken a person to greater achievement. Always leave home with kind words and leave behind a feeling of goodwill. (5) Love Love is the ruling element of life. Genuine love is founded on esteem and respect. I believe there is no greater love than a mother for a child. No matter what the child may have done, been rude, stolen money or even has killed someone, the mother is always ready to forgive. If there be love, impossibilities will become possible. Let us love life and live love. (6) Loyalty Loyalty is the faithful, Constance exercise, of and devotion to a duty or obligation owing to someone or something. Our first loyalty should be to God and mankind. Jesus thought us to "Love God, with all our heart, will all our soul and with all our mind. Second, t o love our neighbor as ourselves. To be loyal is to be true to our self. Be loyal and true to you obligations so long as you under such obligation. Success is built upon loyalty, faith, sincerity, cooperation and other positive forces. (7)Punctuality One of the great virtues is where possible to be on time. This is so important that I wonder why it is not taught at home, in schools and business. Success and happiness depend in a far higher degree on punctuality than many suppose. It is not sufficient to do the right thing, buy it must be dome at the right time as well. The punctual person has the advantage of being relaxed and at ease. They save energy because they have not put themselves under pressure due to leaving things to late. Most great leaders in commerce, industry, and in professions are good examples to follow. They are keen on the ball and first at work. (8) Sincerity Sincerity is one of the most important traits of a pleasing personality that a person can have in the pursuit of happiness or success. Sincerity means honesty and truthfulness from the heart and the complete absence of deceitfulness. Deceit and falsehood are obstacles to happiness. A person's noblest gift to another person is his sincerity, for it embraces his integrity also. (9) Tolerance Tolerance stands high on the list of the traits of a winning and pleasing personality. Without tolerance regardless of the number of other traits a person possesses, he could not possibly have a magnetic personality. An intolerable person is one who is unable to tolerate contrary opinions. Carrying this a step further, this means that an intolerant person does not recognize the right of another individual to have an opinion of his own if it id the opposite of his own ideas. Tolerance does not mean we have agreed with everyone or every statement made. But it does mean we might not agree with someone, but respect that they have an opinion of there own (10) You You are the most important person in your life. That is why you must learn to love yourself a lot more. Remember that you have to learn to mind your own business as it is the most important business in your world. You have much to do to find your true identity and your potential.<WM Copyright©2003,2004 World Mission Magazine |